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I have appeared on numerous television programs, including the Oprah, Leeza, and Montel Williams shows, CNN Live, The O'Reilly Factor, KCBS 'Morning News,' and UPN's 'Evening News.' My seminar on The Pleasure Zone is featured in the PBS television series Body & Soul in segment "Ode to Joy."

I have been interviewed on hundreds of talk radio shows and Internet podcasts.

Besides the cover stories I have written for Psychology Today, Self and New Age, I am often quoted in print on topics related to hapiness in relationships and sexual enrichment.


I have been quoted in Reader's Digest, Women's World, Vogue, Cosmopolitan, Playboy, Self, Redbook, McCalls's, Men's Fitness, Men's Health, Glamour, Mademoiselle, Family Circle, Parenting, and the Utne Reader.

My work has been cited in Newspapers, including the Los Angeles Times, San Francisco Sunday Examiner and Chronicle, Chicago Tribune, USA Today, Ventura County Star, and Toronto's Globe and Mail. I have written two regular newspaper columns, one an advice column on sex called Sex with Stella for an alternative newspaper and the other on positive living called Dr. Plethora.

I am available for television, radio, video, and print interviews on topics of current interest relating to sexuality and intimate relationships.

(310) 855-7564

The fundamental insight that has changed my life and deepened my work is what I call the Principle of Relaxed Excitement. It has to do with cultivating the ability to be energized and relaxed at the same time. This may well be the master key to all our aspirations. I think of it as the key to success in everything!


The sexual self, sexual health, and sexual satisfaction cannot be separated from issues of personal growth, authenticity, self-acceptance and ability to be happy in a relationship.

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