Programs for Professionals

Full-Spectrum Gestalt Trainings (FSG)

This approach to intimate fulfillment occurs along five interrelated spectrums: the Attachment-Sexuality Spectrum; the Pain-Pleasure Spectrum; the Problem-Transformation Spectrum; the Cognitive-Somatic Spectrum; and the Experiential-Behavioral Spectrum.

A spectrum is a broad range of memories, experiences, emotions and habits, from one end to what appears to be its opposite, but where the opposites are actually interconnected--two sides of the same coin--and developmentally interrelated.

As therapists we need to be prepared to identify the narrow polarities of experience our clients often live by and, with our guidance, help them to broaden their relational prospects.

I now identify this work as Full-Spectrum Gestalt (FSG) therapy and Integrative Couples and Sex Therapy trainings.  

Embodied Intimacy in Love and Lovemaking:

A Neurobiological-Gestalt Integration of Couples and Sex Therapy

At Esalen Institute, Big Sur, California

Sunday to Friday, May 7-May 12, 2017 (Corrected Dates)

26 CE Credits (AASECT, APA, LCSW, MFT)

Embodied intimacy is the body-to-body intersubjective connection between parent and infant that shapes the brain and grows secure children, underlies the affection between mates, and arouses erotic lovers. Research shows that many of the vital qualities of nonverbal communication shared by intimates are necessary elements in the therapeutic alliance. Therapist attunement to the client’s facial, vocal and body language in the present moment—whose own body reflects empathy and understanding—are more critical for client growth than psychotherapeutic orientation.

Yet, effective couples and sex therapists also need to be educators, skilled observers and articulators of subtle exchanges, theorizers of possible emotional associations tied to the past, and guides to metabolizing emotional experiences and attaining personal and relational growth. Simultaneously, the therapist needs to be self-attuned and regulated to catch emotional cues and address them helpfully.

This Full-Spectrum Gestalt training looks at five spectrums of exploration in this cognitive-somatic-relational approach to couples’ work. These are: Problem-Transformation; Attachment-Sexuality; Pain-Pleasure; Cognitive-Somatic; Experiential-Behavioral.

The training is primarily experiential with participants process work the route to professional expertise. Methods for exploring and enhancing emotional and sexual intimacy include a body-based reframing of the issues, present-centered embodied Gestalt processing, and breath work.

This training is the prerequisite for the FSG, Level Two training.

Participants will learn to:

  • Summarize advances in brain science and sexology that support an integrated body-based approach to couples and sex therapy.
  • Assess the limiting relationship or sexual patterns in the neurobiological attachment and psychosexual development of partners.
  • Describe how affective attunement between intimates is essential for loving connection, arousal, desire and fulfilling sexual contact.
  • Identify nonverbal right brain communications that pass between partners in couples’ therapy that can support or sabotage therapy.
  • Utilize present-centered embodied Gestalt processing and breath work to enhance capacity for emotional and sexual intimacy.
  • Practice personal methods of stress-awareness and self-regulation.

Join us for a memorable learning experience!

Note: All participants must first register and pay for this program by applying to

Only after registration and payment of tuition will you be able to reserve accommodations at Esalen (this will be an extra cost). Course fees and accommodations are separate. Please see accommodations costs under “Pricing for Partner Programs” at

Tuition: $950

The Esalen catalog for Spring 2017 is now available and may be viewed at

For more info and to register for 2017: Please request an Registration Form by emailing me at or you may call me at (310) 855-7565


The Full-Spectrum Gestalt Training, FSG Level Two:

Neurobiological-Gestalt Training Integrating Couples & Sex Therapy

Open to all therapists who have taken at least one previous Full-Spectrum training seminar  

Friday and Saturday, November 2017, 10 am to 6:30 pm each day, Dates To Be Announced. 

Beverly Hills, CA

AASECT-approved for 12 CE Credits

Whether a couple seeks therapy for relational or sexual issues, the ultimate goal is what I call embodied intimacy. In fact, the same qualities important for lovers and mates are valuable attributes for the intuitive therapist: to be present, embodied, breath-aware, capable of interactively regulating times of stress to work through the conflict, and to enjoy the process of discovery.

This seminar offers therapists further skills development of right brain, body-based experiential processing in the full-spectrum approach to relational and sexual growth. Areas covered include:

  • The Experiential Assessment: Exploring the quality of presence in the presenting problem
  • The Interplay between Internal Models of Attachment and Sexuality: How the models converge during adolescence.
  • Identifying Interrupted Emotional Response Cycles: How the past is present in chronic shame, anxiety, resentment, and grief.
  • Neuroplastic Keys to Growth and Transformation: Turning painful emotional states into pleasurable experiences
  • Therapeutic Mastery: Honing breath and body-based intuitive awareness.

$485 early registration

$525 late registration

For more information and to apply for this training:
Or call: (310) 855-7565



I am available to psychotherapists and sex therapists in both individual and monthly group supervision at my office or via Skype. I am an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Clinical Supervisor and AASECT Approved Provider of Continuing Education.

GROUP – By Application
INDIVIDUAL - By Appointment

To discuss the possibilities available to you for supervision:
Call: (310) 855-7565

For more information on AASECT certification:

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Traditionally, psychotherapy has been viewed through two different lenses: cognitive-behavioral and the somatic-experiential lenses. The Full-Spectrum approach says both sides offer valuable tools for healing and thriving, but each is only half the picture. For psychotherapy and sex therapy to have lasting results, cognitive and somatic approaches need to be integrated.

In essence, two loving people can silently transmit information back and forth through eye contact as well as touch that can adjust each other’s heart rate, hormone levels, disease fighting blood cells, and more. This is called entrainment or “neural synchrony.”

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